I have said this numerous times, that if we stopped making sex such a taboo subject we would see less of the negative about sex, and more of the positive. One of those subjects is masturbation. So many of us, both male and female feel that its such a secret subject that we are the only ones that do it. Well by now we should know that's not true.
In starting the research for this post, I found that this is one of the most searched sexual subject in countries over in Africa and Asia. I wonder why not that many Americans and Europeans do not research the subject? Are we the masters of it? Because what I found out shocked me on so many levels.
Don't forget that masturbation with toys and machines is still masturbation, and its OK to use props to help you reach climax. Double penetration sex machines, and fuck machines are becoming very popular.
In this post we are going to talk about masturbation for both men and woman.
Men and Masturbation
This is where my mind was blown because a survey that was claimed to be one of the largest masturbation surveys claims that 41% of Men feel pressured because they don't view themselves as manly according to the main social stream that portrays masculinity. The truth is real people. Us Men straight, gay, bi, trans like to feel a softer side of things. We want to be caressed, we want to be touched, and this is why when most men masturbate the are able to do these things.
Most men will probably think of jacking off as masturbation and that is it. Some of them do it in the shower, some do it under the sheets before going to bed. It does not matter how you do it just make sure you do it. If men do not get off or have sexual climax and ejaculate on a regular basis they run the risk for health concerns such as your dick no longer working, and prostate starting to get slow and sluggish. There is no set amount of times as to how much you should masturbate, but at least 1 to 2 times a week would keep your took functioning at proper performance.
Instead of just jacking off to get off, there are other things you can do to help better enhance your orgasms. One of these techniques is called orgasm denial. Check out our blog post on orgasm denial and learn more about it.
When you are stroking your tool, make sure to touch and massage your taint why you are doing this putting pressure on this area will start to milk the prostate so to speak. You are able to keep doing this as much as possible along with orgasm denial, your going to have one explosive orgasm and well probably a large mess as well.
Activating your rectal area, with just a small object or finger can bring you such enjoyment. Straight men also do this, so don't think its going to make you gay just because you play with your anus why pleasing your self during your masturbation session. Use lube because you do not want to hurt yourself, and you can also use a Wifi dildo to help stimulate you if you have a friend that is in another room, or another state they can control the toy for you giving you even more enjoyment during your session.
Woman and Masturbation
I have a large group of Woman for friends and all of them enjoy masturbation. The reason is that the female body is complexes and who knows how to better stimulate a woman then the woman. The vagina is what most men think is the area to get their females off, but do not realize its on the edge and inside that they also need to pay attention too. Woman sometime masturbate by just sensitizing their clit. Others will do it with longer and bigger toys, however I have found most woman like to use a vibrating toy so they can get the full feel of sensitizing their G spot.
Another thing that most woman do not find out until later in life is that the G Spot is different on every one. One of friends says she enjoys masturbating but what gets her really off is someone biting on her neck why they are inside her. However she said you can still have a good alone session, and she always gets off when she masturbates.
Now a woman has many areas of their body to use for self pleasure. Do not forget that doing this is also good for your health as well. Its a great stress reliever, its fun, it helps with built up sexual frustration and goods for you mental health as well. So please let your mind wander and enjoy your 1 on 1 time with yourself.
Erogenous zones - These are your thighs, tits, boobs. Let your hands wonder and love yourself. You can rub, pinch, pull, squeeze, or tug your nipples, inner thighs, ears, neck, and other parts of your body during solo play. These areas, known as erogenous zones, can cause pleasurable sensations throughout your body when played with.
Vaginal - You can use your fingers or a sex toy to penetrate your vagina during solo play. You’ll feel the “Big O” deeper in your body, and your vaginal walls will throb.
Clitoral- Most people use their fingers to play with their clitoris, but vibrators and other toys can also bring pleasure during solo play. When you orgasm, you’ll feel a tingly sensation along your skin and in your brain.
Combo - This one is all about personal preference. You can use both hands to play with your vagina and your clitoris, or a combo of sex toy and fingers. When you stimulate your clitoris and vagina — especially the G-spot — at the same time, you’ll feel an explosive orgasm that may leave you convulsing or even lead to ejaculation.
So everyone both male and female should enjoy self pleasing art of masturbating. Its healthy, its normal, and most of all, its FUN!