Fisting can be very arousing for some people. Lately I’ve been listening to others discuss their kinks and fetishes. Fisting seems to be one of the most popular topics. The goal of this post is to educate myself and the reader on some of the facts about fisting.
When planning to try fisting, there are some things that should be done to prepare for the experience. Most will say a good enema is needed to make sure you are cleaned out. Yes, there is always the chance of getting dirty with anal. An enema will help prevent this from happening. Lube, for love of all things kinky, do not forget the lube. When talking about fisting, one can never have enough lube on hand. If you think you might have enough, go get some more. Because of the amount of lube being used and the body fluids that are sure to be flowing, a good suggestion is to have towels handy or to use waterproof sheets. This will make for easier cleanup.
One precaution about lube is to be careful with lubes that containing numbing or desensitizing agents. This can prevent you from feeling pain and know if you need to stop. Some people may say it helps because it makes it easier to open up. I'm not saying do not use them but use precaution. If you want a layer of protection you can use gloves. There are gloves specifically made for fisting or you can use regular latex type gloves. Be sure to check for latex allergies of those involved.
Since fisting involves sticking your hand up into someone, one should also take some precautions about your hands. Jewelry should be removed. Rings and such could slip off inside someone or even harm the sensitive internal tissues. Wash your hands! Would you want someone sticking their fingers or anything inside you that was dirty and contain bacteria? Nobody wants that. If you have any cuts or abrasions on your hands, be extra careful cause this can increase the risk of exposure to bacteria. Last hand precaution is about nails. Your fingers are going inside someone and coming in contact with sensitive internal tissues. Nails can harm this tissue so be sure to keep nails trimmed so not to harm anyone.
Have some foreplay, and plenty of it. Getting someone aroused for fisting is sometimes key to getting them to really open up. With fisting you cannot go from 0 to 60 in less than a minute. Doing so would more than likely harm the receiver and ruin the experience for everyone involved. Start out slow with one finger. Then slowly work your way up increasing by a finger each time. Before progressing to the next finger, make sure the receiver is ready to keep going. Let them get adjusted to the size of each step before proceeding so they do not get hurt.
There are different positions that can be used for fisting. Find out what works best for you as everyone is different in what they like. Some positions may feel good for some while others do not like it. How are you doing on lube? Be sure to re-apply lube as needed. The thickest part of the fist is the knuckles. If you can get past the knuckles then the rest is downhill. As you go through a fisting session, make sure to check with the receiver to make sure they are uncomfortable. This way you can adjust what you are doing to make the experience more pleasurable. When ending a session, make sure to be careful when removing your fist. Removing too fast could cause damage to the sensitive internal tissue. Coughing can sometimes help get the fist to come out.
This ends our brief facts about fisting blog. When looking into experiencing fisting, make sure you have everything you need on hand to handle anything that may come up. Fisting isn't just about sticking your hand up someone’s butt. There should be pleasure involved. If there is too much pain it's not fun. And as will all things kink, make sure it is safe and fun. Don't try doing something if you don't know how as you could end up hurting yourself or the other person.
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