Humiliation and Degrading Is It Your Cup of Tea with BDSM

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So tonight were having a winter storm, right now its getting colder and colder with a heavy rain that is going to turn to Ice and I am really wanting the D tonight. I want him to really D me good, and it got me thinking about Humiliation and Degrading and then one of our BDSM groups were associated with has it as tonight's topic. So it got me wondering if it was my cup of tea or not. I thought it wasn't but then I look back at some of the things I like my partner to do to me and say to me and wonder if its the same? I am not sure so I did some research.

In the research I found that Humiliation is when you make someone embarrassed like doing a simple thing as run around the house naked why you have company over, where degrading is to lower and treat a subject like a piece of furniture or animal. So It answered my personal question that I do like a little degrading.

Do you have trouble in finding ideas on how to humiliate or degrade your partner? We found a good list of them to try if its your thing.

Force a male sub to wear slutty women’s lingerie (force cross-dressing).

If it’s a woman, make her go out with no underwear beneath her clothing.

Make them go to the grocery store and buy the largest cucumber or eggplant they can find and a bottle of lube.

Make them wear a chastity belt under the clothes when they go to work.

Make them wear a smartphone-controlled sex toy (like a butt plug, love egg, or prostate massager) when they go out and set it off whenever you wish.

Tie them up outside and leave them there for a designated period of time.

Make him tan while wearing a bikini.

Make them wear embarrassing outfits when they go out – take it an extra step and make them go to a Wal-Mart (the store is infamous for customers with strange clothing – their photo will probably end up on some social media site).

If it’s a man, make him wear panties and a bra under their clothes.

Make them perform rimming (on their Dom or even another person).

Have them shave off all their body hair, eyebrows too

Make him wear feminine deodorant or perfume.

Make him sit down to pee.

Make them write something on social media.

Always make sure you get consent and discuss your scenes and role play with your partner. Make sure that you discuss safe play as well.

So really this is a kink I am going to want to check into more especially if it something I could use a wireless dildo for. I could imagine sentencing my partner to a day at home with the dildo in his rear and I would control it from work through out the day.

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