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How To Find A Potential BDSM Or Kink Partner In Your Town

Updated: Mar 4, 2022

When we visit the chat boards that we signed up for, or other BDSM networking sites and in our Facebook Discussion group, the number 1 question is where do I find a BDSM Partner or where do I find a dom? Well, it's not easy but it's also not hopeless. You're going to hear everyone's opinion on various ways to find a potential BDSM partner or Kink partner and you're really going to have to venture out and do it yourself to really see if that is the same experience you're going to have.


Always keep in mind safety and vetting before hooking up or scheduling a meet with a potential partner. Make sure you meet first in a public setting and plan a scene in advance. Do not just go to play with someone right off the bat, because that could be dangerous. You didn't come here to find out about hook-up safety so let's get to the real reason you reading this blog post.


BDSM, KINK and Fetish Websites To Meet Other Like-Minded Kinksters


There are a few well-known websites that you have the potential of meeting a partner in your fetish or kink. If you don't meet someone directly there are ways to find Munch groups that are nearby your area. Now for those of you that live in rural areas, it will be harder. You're going to have to be willing to travel to your nearest larger city that has Munch groups, or BDSM groups that meet on a regular basis. They are out there, and these sites help you locate them a little easier.


KinkD App - This is a kink community that is online and undergoes a photo verification process. The verification process makes its members feel safe and secure when networking with other like-minded kinksters.


Kinkoo - Online app to meet other BDSM and Kink members just like you. We have not tried this app, but it came up as a recommended one through search. If you have experience using this app we would like to hear from you.


FetD App - Fet is for singles and couples who are in the BDSS and Fetish world. Meet others that are interested in the same kinks as you.


Fuck.com - Yes there is a website community of kinksters, singles, and couples who are on this website.


Fet Life - Fetlife is a well-known and heavily used website for groups, singles, couples, swingers, poly, BDSM, Kink, you're going to find it on Fet Life. We need to be more active over there and hopefully, we will see you soon.


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We wanted to make sure you had other areas to research and we did the searching for you in hopes you get the answers to your questions in finding your new kink partner. We know how important it is to have someone to practice with. Why most discussion groups are not a form of a place for hookups they are a good place to network and learn how to find others in your area, and you never know. Just don't break your group's rules trying to find someone to be your dom or sub. You would get banned.



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https://www.katekinsey.com/how-to-find-a-dominant.html


https://www.subseekingdom.com/


https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMAdvice/comments/ebruiv/how_do_you_find_doms/


https://kinkyevents.co.uk/how-do-i-find-a-good-dom/


https://www.quora.com/How-does-a-brand-new-submissive-find-a-good-Dom-BDSM


We do want to strongly encourage caution anytime you go to meet someone for the first time make sure to do it in a public setting, and let a friend know where you are going, what you are doing, and what time you are doing it. Make sure to let Google and Facebook apps track your location when going to these meet-ups so there is a digital record to help find you if you get into a predicament.



 

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