BDSM - Question Am I too old to practice BDSM?

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I was thinking to myself is there an age limit to BDSM or Kink. I am 44 and really just started to get involved in this realm just last year. So I decided to do some research as to how many others had this thought, and there are quite a few consenting adults asking themselves are they too old to pursue BDSM or any other Kink that might interest them. The common answer that was found was no! There is not an age limit to Kink or BDSM in getting started or how long you plan on doing it. So get ready to read the questions and answers we were finding why researching this topic.


Am I Too Old To Get Into BDSM?


I am a 30-year-old man. While it's somewhat of a personal matter, I've gone through my 20s with virtually no sexual experience.

Long story short, I'm deeply intrigued by a kink or whatever the proper term is.

With that said, I'm at a point where I'm a little concerned that if I pursue this, I'll be perceived as a weirdo or something to that effect.

Thank you for your time. Have a good one.


Some of the responses to this post were spot on and great! I keep enjoying being a part of the BDSM/Kink Community due to the welcoming, and positive mindsets in the majority of the people me and my husband have been meeting since embarking on this journey.


Responses To 30 Year Old BDSM Virgin


I'm 35 and have just this year discovered what really makes me tick through kink. So no, never too late :-) good luck.


No such thing as too late. I can't say I've met someone in your exact situation at a munch/event but I have met many who are in their 30's, 40's even 50's who were for example married at a young age in a very vanilla marriage. Got divorced and were just now exploring sex and BDSM. So just because you are 30 doesn't mean you are too old, too late or that you are alone being that age and just starting to explore BDSM.


Not at all. my Sir is 48 and only in the last 5 years or so had his sexual awakening. sometimes he gets a little wistful when I talked about the naughty things I've done, because he didn't get to experience the things I did (my awakening started at 19) and might never, but he is a more fulfilled, happy man because he knows exactly what he wants from a relationship.


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So as you can see there is no being too old to get into BDSM or explore your kinky side. I have actually been finding it very free feeling and enjoying the discipline I have been learning since joining the worldwide kink BDSM community and meeting some great people along the way.


There is also a misconception that most adults start having sex at a young age, and that's how it should be done, that if someone is a 40-year virgin they are soiled and cannot function sexually. That is totally garbage information! You can still be sexually active and not have any issues if you waited well into your 30s, 40s, 50s, etc. So do not let that scare you. Get on Fetlife and meet other like-minded people in your area and around the globe. There are even groups on Facebook that have great communities to meet other like-minded people who are new to practicing BDSM or are veterans.


We hope you asked yourself this question and felt that by reading this and hearing that other have also asked themselves, that you decided to spread your wings and give it a good ole try! Be safe and have fun!



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