Basics of Fisting Men and Woman
Fisting is one of the most popular fetishes in the world of Kink. Now why its not one of our go tos when it comes to kink. However, why so many are fascinated with this Kink, we did some research to make sure you had some great information if you are to do this form of Kink. Now if you have never heard of Fisting we need to start out by telling you what it is first.
Fisting is when you take a balled up hand or fist as you may, and insert it into the anus or vagina up to your wrists. Then you make the motion of going in and out with your arm why your fist and part of your arm insert itself into the vagina or anus of the person receiving the fisting.
Now remember your about to put something a bit larger than what the orifice is used to having in it. So you will need a lot of lube, and a lot of patience and this goes for anyone. Whether you're a man or a woman, you will need to have these things available. Why not do it the proper way, and keep yourself from getting hurt. I don’t know about you, but if I am going to enjoy something I really do not want to get any injuries from it.
Your probably even asking why someone would find enjoyment with having a fist going in their ass or vagina. Well most people say its the feeling of feeling full in that area is a feeling like no other. Now I can understand that wanting to feel that feeling, because when I bottom for a male including my husband who has a big dick, I love the feeling but it also hurts as its pushes my limits. So keep in mind, that it will take time before you can receive a full fist and part of an arm up there. You might have to do a few sessions where you're losing the area the up so it can be pleasurable and not such a horrific encounter.
You're going to want to get gloves. Yes gloves because you are about to enter a body area that can be prone to infection, if it gets cut by your fingernail and can become infected. So make sure you are using a glove to keep the partner safe. Also keep in mind if the partner has a latex allergy you do not use latex gloves.
The next thing you will want to make sure to do is to schedule time for aftercare. We cannot stress this enough. Remember that fisting is a very intense sexual activity. You need to be prepared if damage will occur. Damage with vaginal fisting does not happen as much as it does with rectal fisting. So just be prepared either way. The fister will need to be around to help the fistee afterwards.
Make sure you have plenty of towels handy as its going to get wet, and possibly messy. It would be a good idea to use a douche if you are going to be doing anal fisting, to make sure your partner is completely cleared out. Also keep in mind not everyone can take the whole fist. So start out slow, and with slow motions… Finger, then 2 fingers, then 3 then do some duck fisting where you have the thumb and the first 4 fingers going in and out. Take your time and this form of kink can be enjoyable for both partners.